I’m sure that everyone has heard about playing “hard to get”, however, not many know why this tactic works so well to attract the opposite sex… or the correct ways to make it work to your advantage. Get out your pen and paper, or get your printer ready, because I’m going to break it down for you.
Think of it this way: Remember when you were a kid and you were told that you could not have something? That made you want it ten times more badly, didn’t it? We will go to great lengths to gain possession of what we can not have, simply because it is a natural human instinct to strive for what is just out of our reach. If this were not built into our minds the way it is, I highly doubt that our society would be even remotely close to being as evolved as it is today. We would simply lack the necessary motivation.
When you apply this principle to the dating game on adultfrienedfinder in the proper manner, it will prove to be one of the most powerful weapons in your arsenal. Playing “hard to get” is much more important than most people think, and in my personal opinion it is almost necessary to use it on at least some sort of level if you plan on getting and keeping any beautiful women. I say that because just as we want what we can not have, in turn we do not want what we can easily get. If you do not play “hard to get” at all, you are placing yourself in the “easy to get” category, which is exactly where you don’t want to be.
Playing “hard to get” is a fairly simple concept once you’ve learned the rules, and that is what I’m about to teach you. The only tricky part is being able to stick with it, because it will require you to fight certain urges that can become quite strong. Overcoming these urges is next to impossible for the average man, who is uneducated on this subject and does not know that giving in to these urges is a mistake, because they may “feel” like the right thing to do… that is why I call this the tricky part. With that in mind, let’s move on to the most important stuff, the do’s and dont’s.